Strong Me — modern psychology from women to women
A platform with psychology articles written by women, for women — with depth, respect, and a real understanding of life’s emotional complexity
Strong Me — modern psychology from women to women
A platform with psychology articles written by women, for women — with depth, respect, and a real understanding of life’s emotional complexity
25 Questions to Get to Know Your Partner Better
We invite you to play a game that will help you fill in the gaps in what you know about each other and feel a deeper sense of closeness between you.
To make the conversation honest and open, create an atmosphere of trust and be ready not only to ask questions, but also to reveal something about yourself. Sincerity and openness go both ways.
Some answers may surprise you. Others may make you smile. Conversations like this allow you to touch on topics that everyday life rarely leaves time for.
Are you ready?
To make the conversation honest and open, create an atmosphere of trust and be ready not only to ask questions, but also to reveal something about yourself. Sincerity and openness go both ways.
Some answers may surprise you. Others may make you smile. Conversations like this allow you to touch on topics that everyday life rarely leaves time for.
Are you ready?
About You as a Person
- Which 5 adjectives would you use to describe yourself? What about 5 verbs?
- Who would be your “dark alter ego”?
- What is your most annoying trait?
- What kind of person would you never want to become?
- What is your boldest dream?
- What would you never talk about?
- What do you do, or want to do, when you get angry?
- What would you not do for any amount of money?
- Prince Harry’s autobiography is called Spare. What title would you choose for your own autobiography, and what chapters would it have?
- What do you like most about yourself?
About Life
- What does your ideal world look like?
- What does your ideal day look like?
- If you could change one thing right now, what would it be?
- Name 5 things you cannot imagine your life without.
- Which book or film reminds you of your own life story?
- If your life were a building set, which pieces would be missing, and which ones would be unnecessary?
- If you had the power to give all people one quality, what would you choose?
About Relationships
- What kind of people inspire you the most?
- What kind of people irritate you the most?
- If a relationship were a dance, which dance would you choose?
- What kind of relationship do you consider unhealthy?
- What are the most important lessons you have learned from past relationships?
- Describe your ideal partner in 5 words.
- What kind of person could you not be friends with?
- If you had to create a “relationship rulebook,” what would it include?
It is important not only to ask the questions, but to truly hear the answers.
Listening is your main task in this game.
Pay attention to your own feelings as well:
Do you like what you are hearing?
How do you react internally to your partner’s words?
Do you share their point of view?
And if not, how strong and definite is your disagreement?
Listening is your main task in this game.
Pay attention to your own feelings as well:
Do you like what you are hearing?
How do you react internally to your partner’s words?
Do you share their point of view?
And if not, how strong and definite is your disagreement?
If something is unclear, ask for clarification.
It is completely normal to ask follow-up questions.
It is completely normal to ask follow-up questions.
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Meet the authors of Strong Me
We created Strong Me as three psychologists from different generations and life experiences, united by the same belief: women need guidance that feels honest, intelligent, and written from one woman to another. Our platform is here to help women understand themselves, their relationships, and their worth with more depth and confidence.
- Aiko VossPhD in PsychologyI grew up between cultures, and for a long time I felt I had to be quiet, pleasant, and easy to love. Psychology helped me understand how many women are taught to abandon themselves in order to be accepted. My work is about self-worth, emotional boundaries, and helping women stop shrinking themselves to keep peace.
- Mirela HartmannPhD in Experimental PsychologyMy background is in Experimental Psychology, so I have always been interested in why people repeat the same emotional patterns, even when those patterns hurt them. In my own life, I also had to learn the difference between being understanding and overgiving. Today, I write about relationships, attachment, and the quiet power of choosing yourself.
- Seraphina ValePhD in Clinical PsychologyAfter many years as a clinical psychologist, I have seen women survive heartbreak, divorce, grief, motherhood, loneliness, and new beginnings. What I know for certain is this: strength is not about becoming hard. It is about finally listening to yourself. My writing is for women who are ready to heal with dignity, clarity, and self-respect.