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Strong Me — modern psychology from women to women

A platform with psychology articles written by women, for women — with depth, respect, and a real understanding of life’s emotional complexity
Strong Me — modern psychology from women to women
A platform with psychology articles written by women, for women — with depth, respect, and a real understanding of life’s emotional complexity

Quiz: What’s Keeping You from Meeting a Good Man?

We invite you to take this quiz to understand what may truly be holding you back from meeting the right partner. The questions focus on the inner blocks, fears, and beliefs that may be keeping love at a distance. Complete the quiz and receive a personalized result with guidance on your next steps.

What’s Keeping You from Meeting a Good Man?

Answer with Yes or No. Yes = 1 point, No = 0 points. Total score: 0–20.

1) I often think about being single, and it makes me feel sad or ashamed.

2) Being alone makes me feel like a failure.

3) When I see couples, I feel like crying or I become irritated.

4) In my mind, “being single” means “being unhappy.”

5) When I go out, I do not expect to meet anyone who would genuinely interest me.

6) Lately, I have been moving from one partner to another.

7) No one has been genuinely interested in me for a long time.

8) I believe all the good men my age are already taken.

9) I believe dating apps are not worth trying.

10) I often tell myself, “I’m just unlucky in love.”

11) I still need to do a lot of work on myself before I can build a healthy relationship.

12) When a man shows me attention, I feel awkward and want to disappear.

13) I often attract attention from men who are not right for me.

14) I often fall for men who are not truly interested in me.

15) I believe you have to “measure up” in order to be a good partner.

16) I am not very happy with my appearance or my body.

17) Trusting men is dangerous.

18) Dating takes too much free time.

19) I do not have a clear idea of the kind of man I want to meet.

20) I am generally unhappy in relationships.

Please answer all questions before viewing your result.

Important: This test is for guidance only and does not replace a professional consultation.
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Meet the authors of Strong Me
We created Strong Me as three psychologists from different generations and life experiences, united by the same belief: women need guidance that feels honest, intelligent, and written from one woman to another. Our platform is here to help women understand themselves, their relationships, and their worth with more depth and confidence.
  • Aiko Voss
    PhD in Psychology
    I grew up between cultures, and for a long time I felt I had to be quiet, pleasant, and easy to love. Psychology helped me understand how many women are taught to abandon themselves in order to be accepted. My work is about self-worth, emotional boundaries, and helping women stop shrinking themselves to keep peace.
  • Mirela Hartmann
    PhD in Experimental Psychology
    My background is in Experimental Psychology, so I have always been interested in why people repeat the same emotional patterns, even when those patterns hurt them. In my own life, I also had to learn the difference between being understanding and overgiving. Today, I write about relationships, attachment, and the quiet power of choosing yourself.
  • Seraphina Vale
    PhD in Clinical Psychology
    After many years as a clinical psychologist, I have seen women survive heartbreak, divorce, grief, motherhood, loneliness, and new beginnings. What I know for certain is this: strength is not about becoming hard. It is about finally listening to yourself. My writing is for women who are ready to heal with dignity, clarity, and self-respect.
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